Soul Mates
Overall, most people felt good about their choice of mate (85%). Non-Hispanic respondents and those over the age of 44 (89 % for both groups) indicated that it would be hard for them “to imagine finding a partner better than the one” to whom they are married. Additionally, an overwhelming 91% of the entire group surveyed reported believing that their relationship “brings out the best” in them.
In American culture, nearly all young adults believe they will meet their “soul mate,” fall in love, and marry (according to research by The National Marriage Project). The findings from this survey point to the power of expectations; people expect to find and be with their soul mate. And the vast majority report that the one they are with fits the bill. Some people believe that divorces are primarily the result of bad matches. No doubt there are bad matches. But the data suggest that bad matches cannot be the primary problem. People are overwhelming pleased with their partners. Satisfaction with one’s partner, however, doesn’t guarantee effortless success. Even soul mates can come up against serious relationship issues. Successful relationships take work.
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